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Friday’s Feature: My Masquerade Bridal Shower

I know you guys have been waiting for these pictures/post – so here are details of the day! While I’d love to share pictures of me on that day, I can’t - I was wearing a revealing dress and I do Hijab… so figure it out :)

Prior To The Day
As you know, I’ve been planning my bridal shower for a long, long, long time – I came up with the theme almost 1 year ago. Since I knew my theme, I was able to buy everything on sale and at really a really good price. Most of the decor is from the dollar store (with the exception of the paper plates and napkins) and was bought around Halloween.

Yes, I did help with almost every piece of decor you see. I know some girls go as far as helping with their shower and then pretending to be surprised – there’s no shame in being involved with your event! :) While I helped with the decor (check out the Feather Wall I created!), I did not help with the actual event – the games, the food, the sequence of events, etc. My sisters took care of everything in those departments – yeay!

Bridal Shower Day
The morning of the shower was really chaotic and stressful. I had people calling/texting me for directions, telling me they might be late, asking for my opinion on little details, and my hair appointment almost got cancelled. I’m not going to lie, I had a total bridezilla moment when the hair salon tried to cancel on me. I pulled the “bride card” on them. Apparently they had double booked the hair dresser and wanted me to move my appointment – not happening. Amidst all the craziness, I also cracked one of my nails straight down the middle. Ouch.

All of this was happening between 9am and 11am.  After my meltdown around 11am, I started doing my makeup and finally calmed down. I did my makeup in around 15 minutes and then headed out the door to get my hair done. I have naturally curly hair (we’re talking curly, curly – not wavy) but wanted to get something slightly different. Once I got to Jason Michales – they have a secluded section in the back for those of you who wear a Hijab – I asked for loose curls. Overall, I was happy with what the girl did – but she rushed off to her other appointment before fixing me up completely. Annoying.

At some point, Nouman whatsapped me and wished me a Happy Bridal Shower Day – how cute is that? :)

Once I was home, I scrambled to fix up my makeup and look for accessories for my dress. Yeah, I didn’t pick out anything beforehand. I hadn’t planned on making an entrance so I slipped into the living room as soon as I was done accessorizing.

The actual event was super fun – it didn’t really hit me that it was my bridal shower. I’ve been to around a gazillion bridal showers… it seemed surreal that it was my time! Thank you to all the lovely ladies who came/helped – my shower couldn’t have been as much fun without you.

Hot pink nails to add a pop of colour

My Ensemble: Black and gold mask, Silver earrings, Black dress with 2 silver beaded belts, Pink Chooriyan, Black and Gold Fan and Black Lacey Shoes. I forgot to take pictures of my makeup - I did black and turquoise smokey eyes and hot pink lips. Yup, I love colour.

I carried a black and gold fan along with my black and gold mask. Hot pink nails, lips and chooriyan to add colour to my look

My dress avec sash

From the bottom left: Black square plates from Party Packagers ($7/pack for the big ones and $4/pack for the smaller ones); Napkins from Michaels (On sale - $1.25/pack of 15); Graffiti Cake Pop Favours; Food Table; Graffiti Cake Pop in a vase stuffed with purple tissue paper; The Show Stopper Cake thanks to Coco Love ~ Creative Cakes by Ghazal

From the bottom left: Follow the Feathers - this was the first thing guests saw as they entered the house; Prizes in matching gift bags; Masks; Balloons; Paper Lanterns at night; Advice t-shirt for yours truly

Blue goblets with tealights - standing on a table draped with a black Hijab and beaded blue "runner" (aka Hijab)

Gold, Silver, Black and Purple Necklaces stuffed inside a tall vase; Jewellery Holder Girl in a Pink and Black outfit - both standing atop a plain black Hijab

Black and purple roses in a vase full of purple water - on a turquoise and black Hijab surrounded by gems

Navy Blue, Turquoise, Clear and Pink gems inside a vase full of purple water - standing between two blue goblets with tealights. Everything is sitting on top of a lace Hijab - my mom was happy that I finally put this Hijab to some use

From the bottom left: Vase with purple water on my Hijab and surrounded by gems; Candle; Necklaces in a vase full of dark purple water; Mask; Flower made by my mom and the Little One - we had pink, purple and black; Tealight in a blue goblet; Feathers and Masks on a wall

Black and purple flowers in a tall vase with purple water... standing next to 2 mini vases stuffed with a blue necklace and topped with colourful feathers

Don't you love the creepy mask? Please also notice the feather sticking out of our lamp!

Feather Wall - I stuck every single feather on the wall!

Feathers, Fans, Flowers and Masks

One of our walls: Draped with dark dupatta's in a curtain style. We threw black, sequenced fabric over the beige sofa and topped it with purple and orange cushions (from my room!)

My sister made the "Favours" sign!

Glittery Masks

Besides the Graffiti Cake Pops, we also had masks on the favour table. There were 10 different kinds to choose from

Masks for us sisters

Yup, everything except the napkins/paper plates are either from the dollar store or things we utilized from home. Hope you liked the pictures!

Late today, I’ll be posting random pictures of my makeup on my Facebook page – so check those out if you’re interested to see how the black, turquoise and pink worked together.

Have a great weekend :)

*All the above pictures are owned by Shaza’s Scrapbook*

Shopping For My Bridal Shower Dress

Surprisingly (okay, maybe not so surprisingly), this week has turned into a Bridal Shower Inspiration week on my blog! YEAY.

I started searching for my bridal shower dress around 2 weeks before the event. I couldn’t decide what I wanted to wear – I wanted a ball gown (so masquerade!) but I also wanted to show off my legs. Not to sound like a complete conceited narcissist but out of all my body parts, I like my legs the most. My arms are flabby and my gut needs to get flatter (I do know how to dress my body so I can camouflage my lower belly roll pretty well)… but my legs, I like. Before you start picturing celebrity legs on my body, let me assure you – they are not. Maybe with a tonne of oil and highlighting products…

Armed with absolutely no clear vision of my dress, I decided to be very open minded while shopping. I was going to try different styles – this isn’t my wedding dress, so I could afford to have fun with a variety of looks! By the way, a bunch of my family friends and I have always wanted to go white-dress shopping - I was SO tempted to try some on.

As I shopped, I started getting a clearer vision of my outfit: I wanted a corset top and full skirt. Yeah, goodluck finding that. After not finding a single dress to fit my vision, I decided I would buy a corset and pair it with a skirt. I found around 10-15 styles of corsets at Ya Ya & Co – perfect. I decided not to buy the corset - instead, I would search for a skirt first and then match a corset to it. After 5 days, I found 2 bright skirts that I liked – one at Bedo and the other at H&M. Before making the skirt purchase, I went back to Ya Ya to make sure that I would look good in a corset (I’ve never tried one!) and a bright skirt.

Obviously, my luck sucks. The sales girl told me that they had shipped back all the corsets. 5 days before my shower and I had nothing to wear, can you imagine how panicked I felt? In a panick frenzy, I started explaining my theme and vision to the sales girl. She started pulling out dresses but nothing looked great - I was comparing real dresses to my vision. Go figure.

I ended up buying a dress that I wasn’t super comfortable in (Dress #4). Even after starving and stressing out the entire day, the dress made every imperfection on my body visible. Even my belly button showed through my dress. What the heck?! Yes, the dress was fitted… but it was the material that was the real problem. I decided to buy a body shaper - it bunched up under my dress and made me look worse. I even tried duct taping my belly button (as per the advice of the lady at The Bay!!) – nope, I was as helpless as a pregnant lady.

Needless to say, I was completely freaked out by Thursday – I had 2 days remaining until the bridal shower. Even though the dress size of the Belly Button Dress was good, I decided to go back to Ya Ya and try a larger size. Who cares if the chest area would be so big that I’d need to pin it? As long as my belly button doesn’t make an appearance, I’d be happy.

At this point, you already know that my luck would not allow me to just exchange sizes. The large did nothing for my belly button. Yup, I was in absolute panic mode.

The sales girl and I pulled a few dresses – 2 of them I really liked. One was a fitted, floor length gown with a big bow/flower at the front (Dress #5). It looked good on me and the sales girl really tried to convince me to buy it. But, I knew the dress I’d be most comfortable in was the one I ended up buying. It was a flowy black dress with 2 beaded belts around the waist and a high-low hemline. I LOVE the dress I bought (Dress #6) – it was figure flattering, short from the front but long at the back (showed off my legs), and super comfortable! YEAY!

I went to 4 different malls and below are my finalists – all the dresses were sleevless/backless so I had to do alot of cropping and editing (I added sleeves!!) to put them on here. The things I do for you guys! :)

Dress #1: Fair Weather – under $100

This dress seemed to fit my theme pretty well - it was dark, it had a ball gown-ish feel and it wasn't crazy expensive. Once I put it on my body, I knew this wasn't the right dress even before I saw myself in the mirror. The bunching at the waist made me look wider than I am - I looked like a frump. I'm sure those boots didn't help

This was the second colour in that dress

Dress #2: Laura – $275

I absolutely fell in love with this dress. The Little One didn’t like it on the rack but I knew I had to try it on. I put in on and could not help but be wowed. It had a full skirt and I loved the little flowers on the lower half. I wish I could post a picture of the back – it was criscrossed and had 2 silver brooches. However, at $275 plus tax, I had to let it go. I did go back to Laura three times to try on this dress.

Isn't it purty?

Dress # 3: Fair Weather – $300

Without a doubt, this was my favourite dress. It fit the theme so perfectly and complimented my body really well. I love the ruffles and the rouching. Check out the gorgeous back below

It's a corset!!

Dress # 4: Ya Ya & Co – $65

The Belly Button Dress

Dress # 5: Ya Ya & Co – $168

This was dress 1 of 2 that I tried on Thursday. The dress that the sales girl loved

Dress #5: Ya Ya & Co – $148

This is the dress I wore - check back on Friday for the full picture!

I’ll be featuring the decor tomorrow – so be sure to check back.

Have a great long weekend!

Monday’s Munchies: My Bridal Shower Food

If you didn’t catch my post last Friday, this past weekend was my bridal shower! I’ll be posting pictures – those that I can – so be sure to check back later this week :) I had an absolutely amazing time – it didn’t hit me until last night that it was my shower.

If you’ve been following me on Facebook or Twitter, you’ll know that I have been planning my shower for ages! YES – I helped plan it :) The sisters and I bought most of the decor last year – yup, we planned that far in advance. You know I’m crazy like that.

The theme? A Masquerade party!

Since it was an afternoon party, we knew wanted finger foods – easy things to munch on. The hardest part about the food was trying to come up with creative food tags. Around midnight the night before, we finally decided to use famous quotes from plays :)

*A special thank you to all the girls who helped with the food – you guys rock!*

All the labels

The Green Eyed Monster: for the spinach pies

All That Glitters Is Not Gold: Mini Croissants (Get it? because the croissants are a goldish colour?)

To Be or Not To Be: Mini Potato Sliders
There's a story behind this one: I really wanted to use this phrase because it's obviously one of the most famous ones. We couldn't figure out what to use it for. The little one suggested we use it for this and that she would demonstrate to everyone what it means: She would say "To Be," hold up the slider and say, "Or Not To Be" and then bite into it. Get it? Yeah... we like dorky lame jokes :)

The Protagonist and The Aside: Chips and Dip.
Chips being the main (protagonist) and the dip being the aside (theatrically incorrect because aside doesn't actually mean "side"... but it goes with our food! lol)

Tempt Not A Desperate Man: Cookies.
Because we all know how tempting they are!

Bubble, Bubble, Toil & Trouble: Fruit Punch
Yes, we changed the D!

Be Not Afraid of Greatness: Meat (left) and Veggie (right) Lasagna's

Can One Desire Too Much of A Good Thing?: Veggie Pizza's

Soliloquy: Spring Rolls
Theatrical Meaning - When a character speaks to him/herself and the audience can hear him/her but other characters can't. Soliloquy... solo... spring rolls because they were solo :)

Tableau: Chocolate Dipped Strawberries
Tableau refers to a frozen image. The little one and I thought you have to freeze/refrigerate choc dipped strawberries - apparently not!

The little one forgot to take a picture of the cake pop label: “What’s In A Name? That Which We Call A Rose.” Because the cake pops were set in a vase like a bouquet :)

And now… the show stopper – my cake!! My suuuper talented sister made it – I gave her complete creative freedom on this project of hers… and she did an amazing job!

Isn't it gorgeous?! I LOVE all the detailing she did... notice the "S"? :)

Midnight chocolate cake layered with salted caramel and whipped chocolate ganache.... sooo rich and decadent!!! :)

The entire table